![]() Sadly some crossdresser’s never tell their wives keeping it hidden in fear of losing the one they love. Part of the stress a crossdresser husband or any crossdresser goes through is the loneliness of not being able to tell anyone. You have to be mindful of how long you look at anything female oriented to avoid attracting attention. Everything you think, say or, do has to be filtered first to keep the secret. It is stressful and demands a lot of your time 24/7 because you can never let your guard down. Since I first figured out crossdressing was going to get me in trouble my shields went up to protect me from exposure. I was struck by a Star Trek episode when Captain Kirk anticipating an attack ordered “shields up” and how it applied to me. This is especially true with the occupations mentioned above which would be a tremendous loss if discovery lead to termination of employment. When that does not work it goes underground and not getting caught is paramount. Once they find out that crossdressing is not acceptable in society they attempt quitting. One factor attributable to virtually every crossdresser married or not is secrecy which, starts during early childhood. We have had professional actors, musicians, scientists, teachers, and accountants. Members of my club CHIC have been airline captains, lawyers, surgeons, medical specialty doctors, pharmacists, radio show hosts (before podcasts) police officers (SWAT team) active duty military officers, business owners and company presidents in banking, manufacturing, construction, retail, engineering and real estate. Over the years I have known crossdressers working in pretty much every occupation you can think of. They can still be good husbands, fathers, coaches, or anything else non crossdressing husbands do. Some will never leave the house while dressed others will do full makeup and go out on the town. The plus trait crossdressing husband has a big interest in women’s clothing and can go further into feminine things but it depends on the antennae height. You get the idea this can be applied to any interest or trait. Others have no interest and eat out or microwave (low Antennae). Some crossdresser husbands love to cook and can converse with any woman about recipes (High Antennae). However they cannot tell you much if anything about college football rankings and players (low antennae). They also have a high antennae for dressing as women and expressing their femininity. Many crossdresser husbands are avid hunters, fishermen, and golfers (high antennae). I have known many married crossdresser’s over the last 40 years. It may be there it is just not prominent. The lower the antennae the less enthusiasm for that trait. The higher the antennae the more prominent the trait. Think of personality traits as antennae that everyone has. Extending it allows you to pick up the signal better improves reception. A car radio antenna that is folded down gets bad reception. ![]() I like to use an antennae analogy to explain different people in general above and beyond crossdressing. On the surface he appears to be just like many other men with similar traits. The plus one trait is the urge to cross-dress in women’s clothing. Have you ever experienced angst over whether you’re actually good at eating pussy? We feel that, too, when giving head, so compliments and encouragement are much appreciated.A crossdresser husband is made up of many traits just like most men plus one. Then, the next time they go down on you, it will be even better! Giving head can be intimidating, and it’s not always easy to know if you’re doing it right. People tend to respond best to positive feedback, so when they do something that you love, throw out some moans and “yeah babies” so they know you dig it. If the person going down on you is trying some shit you dislike, don’t be afraid to politely tell them. The most crucial aspect of blow job communication is discussing techniques. Let’s be real, strapping on a condom to get a beej is rare, but if you’re with someone new it never hurts to ask if they’d feel more comfortable if you wear one. Hair rules are just one thing you should communicate about during the blow job process. Some women don’t want their hair touched others enjoy a nice scalp massage while sucking D.
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